As we journey from Rosh Hashanah (the Jewish New Year) to Yom Kippur (the Day of Atonement), Jews around the world engage in a period of reflection. For several years now, I’ve used this platform to share my personal contemplations during this time. This year, however, as I sat down to write, the words did not flow as readily.
It has been a year weighed heavily by challenges.
And just this past week, the recent escalation of the conflict in Israel coinciding with our New Year celebrations and the somber anniversary of October 7th, was a particularly tough time.
During Rosh Hashanah wishing someone “Shana Tova” or a good year is a common practice, yet this year, those words were difficult to express. The phrase caught in my throat as I spoke it, and I saw the same struggle mirrored in many friends and colleagues. The conflict’s suffering has been immense, and despairingly, it seemed only to be the prelude to more.
Amidst these trials, my identity has evolved. As an Israeli, an Australian, and American — someone who has now spent more of her life outside Israel than within — I watched the unfolding crises with a strengthening resolve in my Israeli identity.
In response to the rising tide of antisemitism, I, a secular Jew, have chosen to publicly exhibit my heritage. For the first time, I wear a Magen David – Star of David, proudly around my neck, affirming who I am amidst the turmoil.
This year demanded that we hold space for seemingly conflicting truths. I’ve felt the acute pain of my people while maintaining compassion for those on the other side of the conflict. I am a Zionist advocating for Israel’s right to exist while also supporting the Palestinians’ aspirations for statehood. I can stand with Israel and yet disagree with the actions of its current government. I believe in prioritizing the return of the hostages and ensuring Israel’s security.
The complexities of these views reflect not a contradiction but a necessary duality that fosters deeper understanding and dialogue.
The divisions this year highlight a critical need for the ability to hold opposing ideas simultaneously. This skill enables us to approach conflicts with greater empathy, consider a broader spectrum of solutions, and make more informed decisions.
So, as we step into the new year, my wish is for unity. Let us strive to bridge divides, alleviate suffering on all sides, and, yes, secure the safe release of the hostages. Together, may we forge a path toward peace and mutual respect.
Shana Tova—may this year bring healing and peace to us all.
In the image is my mother’s apple pie, which has become a cherished family tradition to bake during the holidays in her memory. The pie bears the greeting ‘Shanah Tova’ in Hebrew.